We know Valentine's Day as a time to exchange gifts, celebrate
romance, and express love. But 1,739 years ago, the Romans faced an entirely
different situation.
The Emperor's Dilemma
According to History.com, Saint Valentine served in the
Roman Empire in 278 A.D., during the reign of Emperor Claudius II.
Claudius II was confronted with a series of brutal wars and struggled to assemble an army large enough to face his challengers. There seemed to be
little interest in the military, and Claudius blamed his men's loving
dedication and loyalty to their families. In the emperor's mind, familial care
was interfering with national advancement and security. Claudius II banned all marriages and engagements within his empire to counteract the internal threat.
The Saint's Rebellion
Saint Valentine, considering the ruling unjust, continued to
perform marriages in secret. He enabled a legal confirmation of love and
allowed men to continue pursuing a life at home with their
families.
The emperor was angered when he discovered Valentine’s
disobedience and promptly imprisoned the priest. Legend has it that Saint
Valentine was befriended by his prison guard’s blind daughter, who may have provided
the priest with food. He left her a note signed, "From your
Valentine" before his execution on February 14th.
Valentine was named a Saint after his death for his enduring
beliefs. Could he also have been the first one to give a "Valentine"?
There is no definitive way to prove the origin of
Valentine's Day. In fact, this is one of several Valentine's Day origin
theories (the Catholic encyclopedia states that three St. Valentines were
martyred on February 14th).
The Holiday's Meaning
There are plenty of distractions that can keep us from each
other. Whether it is your family, your classmates, your students, or your
coworkers, hold the people in your life close and be thankful for the
opportunity to serve them. Never let a day go by without intentional acts of
love. A simple kind gesture, an encouraging word, or a walk in the park can
improve anyone’s day. Intentionally set aside time in your life for the people
you love, not just the things you do.