Why Should I Care About Valentine's Day?

We know Valentine's day as a time to exchange gifts, celebrate romance, and express love. But 1,739 years ago, the Romans faced an entirely different situation.

The Emperor's Dilemma

According to History.com, Saint Valentine served in the Roman Empire in 278 A.D., during the reign of Emperor Claudius II. Claudius II was confronted with a series of brutal wars, and struggled to put together an army large enough to face his challengers. There seemed to be little interest in the military, and Claudius blamed his men's loving dedication and loyalty to their families. In the emperor's mind, familial care was interfering with national advancement and security. To counteract the internal threat, Claudius II banned all marriages and engagements within his empire.

The Saint's Rebellion

Saint Valentine, considering the ruling unjust, continued to perform marriages in secret. He enabled a legal confirmation of love, and provided an opportunity for men to continue pursuing a life at home with their families.

The emperor was angered when he discovered Valentine’s disobedience, and promptly imprisoned the priest. Legend has it that Saint Valentine was befriended by his prison guard’s blind daughter, who may have provided the priest with food. He left her a note signed, "From your Valentine" before his execution on February 14^th.

Valentine was named a Saint after his death for his enduring beliefs. Could he also have been the first one to give a "Valentine"?

There is no definitive way to prove the origin of Valentine's Day. In fact, this is one of several Valentine's Day origin theories (the Catholic encyclopedia states that three St. Valentines were martyred on February 14^th).

The Holiday's Meaning

There are plenty of distractions that can keep us from each other. Whether it is your family, your classmates, your students, or your coworkers, hold the people in your life close and be thankful for the opportunity to serve them. Never let a day go by without intentional acts of love. A simple kind gesture, an encouraging word, or a walk in the park can improve anyone’s day. Intentionally set aside time in your life for the people you love, not just the things you do.